I sometimes fail at politeness...

... I really should have used "Yo!" Or something to get his attention, instead of failing the trans vs. butch coin toss with "Ma'am, [no response]...Ma'am, [with attention getting tap], that is a truly excellent hat."

I "ma'amed" a professional drag king. *facepalm*.

I sometimes fail at politeness...

... I really should have used "Yo!" Or something to get his attention, instead of failing the trans vs. butch coin toss with "Ma'am, [no response]...Ma'am, [with attention getting tap], that is a truly excellent hat."

I "ma'amed" a professional drag king. *facepalm*.